nickymandiola. nineteen. curlyhaired. theatre. vintagehollyood. fashionmagazines. books. purpleglasses.Tumblr (3.0; @girlinthepurpleglasses)http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_melfylirf91qa7ajjo1_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_melfylirf91qa7ajjo2_500.png"/><br/> <br/><p>Miles and I have a forest green door next year. this made us way to excited.</p>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/42718556998http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/42718556998Sat, 09 Feb 2013 21:50:43 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mdmf9eBQSI1qzipvbo1_r2_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/42717772731http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/42717772731Sat, 09 Feb 2013 21:40:05 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b19e6c7823c8eb99ac8226dd0c79978d/tumblr_mhvtgyavHl1r3e62yo1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/42717596508http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/42717596508Sat, 09 Feb 2013 21:37:41 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/a1dc50e60b9ea9ec2713ecfc8c7d989a/tumblr_mg1g40SDrh1qjt51po1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39696846863http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39696846863Fri, 04 Jan 2013 19:09:50 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/b5d446762cdc3bbdffabf184fb5c6d54/tumblr_mg0bw0cuZD1qj185so1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://solo-vintage.tumblr.com/post/39481036831/solo-vintage">solo-vintage</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><em>1960s</em></p> </blockquote>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39589087011http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39589087011Thu, 03 Jan 2013 15:42:02 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m960yl7cIz1r2dr3qo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39588688998http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39588688998Thu, 03 Jan 2013 15:37:09 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/a17776037e589294137607475aca16c4/tumblr_mfr22kzy0l1qbfzs5o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39588613968http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39588613968Thu, 03 Jan 2013 15:36:13 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3003bcecbf2be1038d965a774730cbd8/tumblr_mfmaj75kDZ1s1x7qko1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39587857186http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39587857186Thu, 03 Jan 2013 15:26:52 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lskkcgAhjf1qcihcjo1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39587383644http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39587383644Thu, 03 Jan 2013 15:20:53 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/99cc65e3d823db77aaf49f7446f4fd13/tumblr_mg1bl8mifZ1qkeifvo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39587234388http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39587234388Thu, 03 Jan 2013 15:18:59 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/c2947bc3910b36637803903e4dc30bd5/tumblr_mg0mtes41E1s2q0pto1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39586677183http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39586677183Thu, 03 Jan 2013 15:11:51 -0500<p>M: ugh, I hate Bruno Mars.<br/> N: yeah?<br/> M: he looks like a truffle.</p>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39279327835http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39279327835Sun, 30 Dec 2012 23:44:48 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m5weqmCR1I1r9qk1io1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39272545046http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39272545046Sun, 30 Dec 2012 22:17:43 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m8iafcAIMt1qju1iho1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39272442346http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39272442346Sun, 30 Dec 2012 22:16:28 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo1_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo2_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo3_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo4_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo5_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo6_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo7_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_luqjjavUwu1qcaz8oo8_250.gif"/><br/> <br/><p>miles bought me the entirety of this show for christmas. weeeeee!</p>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39271860280http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/39271860280Sun, 30 Dec 2012 22:09:27 -0500<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_mcx7tudPca1rrtfplo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p>yes.</p>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/34982344927http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/34982344927Sun, 04 Nov 2012 11:00:21 -0500<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1zqfgg2ak1r9uia2o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a href="http://animalsinpeopleclothes.tumblr.com/post/20561930677/i-like-the-argyle-but-i-really-think-you-should" class="tumblr_blog">animalsinpeopleclothes</a>:</p> <blockquote><p>I like the argyle, but I really think you should rethink that color scheme.</p></blockquote>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/34672397755http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/34672397755Tue, 30 Oct 2012 21:02:46 -0400<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_manqhdwC5N1qzr04eo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/31932809363http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/31932809363Thu, 20 Sep 2012 15:00:34 -0400“<p>I don’t want to be a feminist anymore. Like a five-year-old, I want to close my eyes, stick my fingers in my ears, stomp my feet on the floor and scream “No! No, you cannot make me, I won’t, leave me alone!” I am, simply put, too tired. So very, very tired.</p> <p>I am tired of fighting with my friends. I am tired of arguing that someone groping and slapping my butt isn’t “what I have to expect”, just because I’m at a bar, and the one attacking my butt has a drink in the other hand. I am tired of hearing “boys will be boys” and “when you’re dressed like that …” and “that’s just what guys do”. I am tired of trying to drown those sentiments in loud, repetitive no’s, screamed over and over again, till my throat is sore and my voice weak – just to hear them repeated, as soon as exhaustion threatens to silence me.</p> <p>I am tired of being afraid. I am tired of seeing someone writing something offensive, sexist, racist, ageist, ableist, somewhere online. I am tired of seeing those writings getting likes and lol’s, and SO TRUE’s. I am tired of being consumed by confusion and anger, typing, typing, typing and typing a seemingly endless response, including research, links and statistics, and then hesitate clicking “submit”. I am tired of knowing that I hesitate because I am afraid of the flood of responses that will come. I am tired of knowing that I will be bombarded with lighten up’s, stop whining’s and get a sense of humor’s for so long, that I will start to wonder if I am indeed wound up too tight, a nagger and humorless. I am tired of the fact that I’m afraid of being called a cunt, even though I don’t find genitalia insulting or demeaning.</p> <p>I am tired of being told. I am tired of being told that “a key that unlocks many locks is a good key, but that a lock that can be unlocked by many keys is a bad lock”. I am tired of the fact that nobody who says this has ever been able to tell me what it is that needs to be locked up. I am tired of being told “your boobs are awesome, you should show them of “. I am tired of being told that “that looks a little slutty”. I am tired of being told that I shouldn’t be a prude, but I shouldn’t be slutty. I am tired of that nobody seems to be able to explain how to do so. I am tired of being told that I can just say no, and I am tired of being told “come on, you know you want to”. I am tired of being told “But we HAVE equality!”</p> <p>I am tired of being asked. I am tired of being asked if I’m a lesbian or if I was raped. I am tired of being asked if daddy didn’t treat me right. If I was in an abusive relationship. If I was beaten. If I grew up with a single mother. If I don’t like sex. I am sick and tired of being asked “But, why are you a feminist, then?” I am tired of being asked why I wear make-up. Why I wear a bra. Why I wear skirts and dresses. Why I flirt with men. Why I shave my legs. I am tired of asking “why do you ask me this?” and hearing the answer “because real feminists are against those things, aren’t they?”</p> <p>Most of all, I am tired of knowing. Knowing that my eyes have been opened, and that what has been seen cannot be unseen. I am tired of knowing it, when I see something that is wrong. I am tired of knowing that only speaking out can change it. I am tired of knowing exactly how hard and scary it can be to do so. I am tired of knowing that if I am not careful, the fight will eat up my hope and strength, and leave me only with bitterness. I am tired of knowing that I can never turn back to not knowing. I am tired of knowing that despite my fears and exhaustion, I am a feminist.</p> <p>No, I don’t want to be a feminist anymore – today. </p> <p>Tomorrow? Tomorrow I think I’ll try again.</p>”<br/><br/> - <em><p><a href="http://community.feministing.com/2012/02/15/i-dont-want-to-be-a-feminist-anymore/">Line</a> </p> <p>I am tired, but I would never go back.</p> <p>(via <a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://nympherret.tumblr.com/">nympherret</a>)</p></em>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/31641704196http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/31641704196Sun, 16 Sep 2012 01:51:34 -0400<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_maf8ivhE4J1qhtz5xo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/31641339317http://girlinthepurpleglasses.tumblr.com/post/31641339317Sun, 16 Sep 2012 01:43:03 -0400